How to know if someone likes you secretly? signs of attraction that shows how a person feels about you

 

10 Signs Someone Really Likes You

It happens with may people, it's not about boy or girl. If you want to know, if someone likes you or not, this thing would help you to make better relationship, in getting better business partner and better friends. 

So, learning that if someone likes you secretly is very important to move ahead in life, to live happily and make good relationship. So, today from various books, 'What everybody is saying' by Joe Navarro, and from 'how to make anyone like you', this article will tell you ten such signs, that shows if someone likes you secretly. On the other hand, if you learn about this science, you can make other people like you. It's like double edged sword. You can use it to know, who likes you, and if you want someone to like you, then all this things can help you. Don't miss any of these points. Without any delay, let's start 

1.He/She feels nervousness and anxiety. 

You must have seen non science  things in movies, which doesn't exist in reality. But sometimes movies tell some things right. One of them is that, when the hero goes to a girl he likes, he is confident with his friends, but when he goes in front of that girl, he gets nervous. His feet start shaking. Words doesn't come out of his mouth. His whole body language changes. His voice tone changes.  According to a research published in Adaptive Human Behavior and Physiology, the feeling of anxiety and attraction is strongly linked. And this is the reason, when we meet the person we like, we become nervous and starts blushing. Shyness, nervousness etc. all these are common signs, which shows that he/se likes you secretly. According to science, it happens because, when emotional trigger gets active suddenly, adrenaline hormone in our body starts releasing. It starts flowing blood by tricking our nervous system. Due to which we starts blushing. And we don't have control over it. The first sign you should notice, if you are meeting someone and that person starts blushing, or starts getting nervous, either he likes you secretly or have respect for you.

2. Longer conversation.

If someone likes you secretly, he will try to do longer conversations. On the other hand, those who don't like you, they will try to end conversation as soon as possible. I'm not telling you in air, it has been published in Non Verbal Behavior journal, same thing has been told in same research. When a person want to talk to you for longer, he/she wants to know your viewpoints and opinions, and is always curious about you and it shows that he/she likes you secretly.

3. The sign of body languages.

In 2008, according to the study of MIT, it was found that the result of a sales pitch or business meeting or negotiations, you can judge it very early with 87% of accuracy, just by noticing their body language. It's a powerful skill that you should learn. If you start noticing people's body language, you can know, who likes you and who doesn't. Who's telling truth and who's lying. It can help you to get good clients and do good sales in business. In short, there is one more sign of body language, do notice that when a girl is talking with a boy, if she plays with her hairs while talking, it indicates that she likes you. On the other hand, there is boy who is roaming, and when he sees a girl, he starts making his hairs, or correct his dressing, this sudden change in body language, show that he likes that girl. Next sign is 'Direction of the Foot'. You can note that if a person who is talking to you, but his body posture, his feet, are in opposite direction, it shows that he is not comfortable in talking with you. He wants to take exit. On the other hand, if a person is talking to you by standing in front, his feet are in front of you, instead of here and there, it can be a sign that he likes you secretly. 

I'm going to tell more such signs, you have to check them too. Because author tells that, you have to check all the signs together, and then you have to judge, he/she likes you. If you check just one sign, its accuracy can be wrong. So, take care of it. 

4. Proximity  

If you suddenly go to talk to a person, and when you go near them, she goes backward, and maintain the distance, it shows that either she is afraid of you, or she's not interested in you. Every person has proximity level, they don't let anyone enter that level. So, you can check this sign also. If you are entering the proximity circle of a person, and they are not having any problems, and also showing more positive body languages, it indicates that he/she likes you secretly. 

5. Closed body language. 

You have come into proximity, and the person in front has closed his hands, he is covering his chest, if we see the reason at subconscious level, we human being, feel very vulnerable about front body language. All our important body languages, heart, lungs, brain, all these are important for us. If we feel threatened or negative, we close it. We close our hands, put pillow under hands whenever we feel nervous. We do it subconsciously. If you are going near somebody, and if he is closing his hands, or showing closed body language, it shows that either he is not interested in you or he is nervous. Every person has personal space circle, an imaginary circle, he feels comfortable till it is empty. But whenever someone enters this space, he starts feeling uncomfortable. It's called their proximity circle. 

6. Leaning. 

Our front body side is sensitive. If you shift your torso at that place, when you feel uncomfortable or threatened, And it's not just about dangerous situations, Author says when you don't like someone, and are not interested in the topic about which that person is talking, you automatically sift your torso. Contrary to it, when you are interested in the people, you shift your body towards them, in fact you lean towards them. if you are interested in them, or in his talking. You can watch this example in the class. When students like the teacher, they listen them and lean towards them, by putting their body forward. Whereas when they are not interested, they sit backward. They try to put themselves away from that situation. 

7.Mirroring the person you like 

You might not realize this thing, we mirror many people since childhood. We mimic other people. When a child is born, he starts seeing other people, and try to behave like other. He tries to mimic their actions. We do this thing unconsciously after growing. Not only body language, if you like someone, if he closes his hands, you also do it, while talking. It's called mirroring. It makes that person feel that you like them. And also build a connection between you. It's not about just body language, author says when two person have similar interest to share, for example, they like same cricket team, they like same football player, or they like same books, whenever they talk about it, their conversations is very passionate, which helps them in building connections. You notice, when people like you, they unconsciously mimic you, they mimic your opinions and feelings too. They repeat the same words as you say. They copy your gestures. Your liking becomes their liking. All these things are a great sign, if someone is mimicking you in all ways, it indicates that he likes you. On the other hand, if you want someone to like you, you can do it, that is mirroring concept. 

8.'Duchenne Smile'

 If you are given just 90 seconds to impress a person, how will you impress that person? The thing is that your first impression is established before you speak. Author says, when you meet someone, your body, your eyes, your facial expressions, tell much more about you. All the signs that I've told you, happens many times. If a person likes someone, he'll sim towards him, lean towards him and much more things like smile. Sometimes, you just smile by seeing a stranger. But giving a smile to a stranger and the people you like, has a great difference. When we meet people and smile just for formality, it is called non dution category. In this smile, there is just lips moment. But when we like someone really, we smile whole heartedly. It is called dution smile. In this, not just our lips moves, our eyes get smaller and do a little moment. Our cheeks muscles get stretched. Our eyes have a unique shine, which you can watch in these photos. This is dution smile. Non dution smile. This one is dution smile and this one is non dution smile. 

9. Eye contact

when someone likes you secretly, he/she try to make eye contact with you. You must have notices that when a boy likes a girl, he will try to make eye contact. Many times they feel shy and break eye contact. But after that, he will try to make eye contact again. This is also a cute and lovely sign that he/she likes you and make eye contact. When people meet, they do this thing. To be honest, it is a universal sign. You don't have to make eye contact like creep people, that scares people. But if you start making eye contact in starting 90 seconds, it can be important. 

10. Remembering small details

 If there is a person, who remembers your small details, and don't avoid little things, it indicates that he/she likes you secretly. Because our brain remembers those things, which we really cares about, and are important for us. It might not be important for you, but the person who likes you, and remembers your smallest details, that means you are important for that person, that's why he/she is doing this. This thing shows one more thing, if someone remembers smallest details, it shows that the person was really interested in you, he wasn't just listening you, he was also remembering that things, was understanding you, was connecting with you. For example, what you like in eating, what clothes you wear, what things you like and what not, which types of movies you like and which not, which types of songs you like and which not, all these examples shows that if someone remembers all these things, your favorite color and all these things, then it's a sign that the person like you. If someone remembers your things, it's a great sign that he/she like you secretly. 

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